This only relates to In Person Coaching (and 1:1 Video Calls) – In all Coaching Videos at the HARDer Erection Video Guide – I am always naked for clear explanation. However, when you have your body in front of us – that is all we need, I show you on your body, not mine. That way it is more meaningful to you.
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The more clothed I am and the more naked you are increases the gains you will get during (and after) your In Person coaching session. But what will those gains be? ….How you feel about yourself – your Male Identity which has a direct effect upon your erection quality and sexual fulfillment.
You’ve already seen what the Harpercapability is – In action. An In Person coaching session is geared to giving you the same Capability. Below explains- why I am now clothed, but also highlights why you have so much to gain from this, with an uninhibited training session.
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A coaching session where you can be totally uninhibited – possibly like never before . Me being clothed means all my focus is not upon my body or my penis – but on encouraging and enabling the inner you and your male virility to take cetre stage – as we go through the range of training aspects that I will have prepared for you.
Mainly for this reason (but also the boundaries reason below) my Naked, In Person, erection coaching days are over but it is all good for you – actually giving superior results for your maleness.
The In Person Coaching
Boundaries Reason
Sexuality can become irrelevant when penis’s are out, with an uninhibited atmosphere, plus intimate parts being trained and touched with semi to full on erections occcuring – – leading to a great male bonding time. Some men can suddenly find the whole virility learning experience excites them so much they want to know more and more – and that can – for some mean they want o explore the subject using my body.
I totally understand the issue – this really is not a normal situation – boundaries and beliefs that are normally present seem to get blurred. But this has a big effect upon me and my work as your coach. As that is what we are both present for Coach to impart knowledge – trainee to gain. Nothing must hijack this, so I gently steer us back on course.
- some trainees just keep on trying though. (rarely, but too often to ignore)
…meaning I have to take more control of the situation, which can put a dampner on procedings.
Now you may well be telling me to simply – control the situation. Believe me I have tried many different approaches – if I am asked by a trainee if he can feel muscles working on my body, I have tried various ways to say No, but all lead to a dissapointment with the trainee feeling a rejection. So you see it is easier when I am clothed – as the opportuntity never presents itself and thus no negative feelings.
The upshot is, I am happy to give you a very personal coaching session – which has actually proven to be even better for you. You will leave with a profound sense of……
What that is – I’ll let you discover for yourself.
The Good news
This should all actually be taken as a positive as I used to be of the opinion that my nakedness was helping you feel more comfortable, but it turns out to be merely an unescessary distraction. Ironicallly I can actually make you feel more comfortable and In touch with your body when I am clothed, after all this was exactly how I was trained in my medical days – the NHS didn’t like us to get naked with the patients 🙃
Still Naked in all the training videos
All my training videos are naked, as this inreases training gains – due to the totally different situation.
Very Personal or Less Personal?
At the start of your In Person session, I willl be asking you the following.
Your Dress Code. It is actually possible for you to participate in most aspects of the training clothed albeit in a less sexualised way, which yes can be very important, so perhaps we may need to discuss prior to your booking.
Choose to:
- be clothed
- be naked
- see how it goes
How personal I should be when I am explaining / encouraging. You’ll have three options:
- I do not touch your body
- I touch your body – except for: your penis, testicles, perineum and pelvic floor.
- I touch your body anywhere that will be benefited by the coaching.
If you are interested in booking an In Person Erection Coaching Session the cost details are here. Or if you have any questions, please just ask me